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When the Bullying Didn't Really End: What ADHD Adults Are Still Carrying
When you ask ADHD adults about bullying, most people brace for childhood stories. Playground teasing. Name-calling. A few loud, painful memories they’ve learned to live with. But when we surveyed over 150 ADHD adults worldwide , what came back was something else entirely: It didn’t stop. And for many, it still hasn’t. ADHD Traits That Get Targeted Most ADHD adults weren’t bullied because they were “difficult.” They were bullied for being: Too loud Too emotional Too sensitive
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6 days ago2 min read


When ADHD Feels Like Too Much… And You’re Told You Are
If you’re an ADHD adult, chances are you've been called too much more times than you can count. "Too emotional." "Too reactive." "Too sensitive." "Too dramatic." More than feeling things deeply...we feel everything, all at once . And there’s no volume knob. No dimmer switch. Just full blast. You can walk into a normal conversation and walk out needing silence, space, or a complete emotional reset… without knowing what even hit you. But here’s the truth that most people miss:
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Dec 26, 20252 min read


The Switch that Actually Gets ADHD Brains Moving
The ADHD adult can stare at the same task for days, maybe weeks. Frozen. Even when it matters. Even when it’s urgent. Even when they care . But then, suddenly at 11:47pm on a random Tuesday? They knock out the entire project in one shot. What just happened? The ADHD Brain Doesn’t Move on Importance. It Moves on Immediacy. It's not laziness or inconsistency. The ADHD brain doesn’t fire up until something feels real enough to grab it. And “real enough” often means: A fast-appr
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Dec 19, 20252 min read


Advertisement Overload on ADHD Brains
Anyone else feel like their brain is utterly fried from constant advertisements? Especially during the holiday season when BLACK FRIDAY , CYBER MONDAY , and END-OF-YEAR SALES are screamed in our faces. It's not that we're dramatic or “bad with money.” We’re likely just maxed out. And particularly for ADHD brains, this time of year hits especially hard. Between flooded inboxes, non-stop pop-ups, and flashy “final deals,” ADHD brains are under siege . And it’s not just annoyin
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Dec 12, 20253 min read


Why ADHD Makes It Hard to Feel
Ever forget to eat until you're hangry ? Not realize you’re exhausted until you utterly crash ? Have constant bumps and bruises from smacking limbs into furniture? Or even wonder why you're dizzy before looking at your untouched glass of water from 8 o'clock this morning? Yeah, same. It might go beyond simple ADHD distractibility... Interoception is the brain’s ability to notice what your body is telling you. What Is Interoception? Interoception is your body’s internal GPS. I
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Nov 28, 20252 min read


Fulfilling My OWN Love Languages with ADHD (Quick Self-Love Recharge)
Learn how to turn your love languages inward and recharge with brain-friendly self-care.
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Nov 21, 20252 min read


Am I An A**hole or Just Burned Out on Mistreatment? Empathy Erosion with ADHD
Ever find yourself caring less - about people, emotions, even your own values - then catch yourself thinking, “Am I turning into an a**hole?” You might just be burned out from years of mistreatment, masking, and running on an empty tank of emotional-protection. When you’ve been trained to override your own boundaries to keep the peace, stay likable, or just survive, there comes a point where your system taps out. ADHD brains are wired to feel deeply... Until they overload. Em
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Nov 14, 20253 min read


The Long-Term Effects of Bullying with ADHD: What Most People Don’t See
When we talk about ADHD, we often focus on attention, impulsivity, and executive function. But there’s an invisible wound that often goes unspoken: bullying , and the lifelong impact it can leave on those with ADHD. It’s Not Just “Thin Skin”... It’s Trauma Many ADHDers aren’t just bullied as children. The bullying follows them into adulthood: in workplaces, friendships, relationships, and even online. What may seem like simple teasing or conflict to some can be internalized d
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Nov 7, 20253 min read


ADHD People Pleasing Can Kill You (How to Stop Draining & Start Rebuilding)
If you’re an ADHDer who’s known as “the helpful one,” this might sound familiar... You say yes to everything . You avoid conflict . You’re the dependable one : always calm, always giving. You might even call it kindness . But what if that “kindness” is actually self-erasure? Let’s talk about ADHD, people pleasing, and the compassion fatigue that often follows. The Hidden Cost of Being "Easygoing" Many of us with ADHD grow up believing that being agreeable is a strength. We be
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Oct 31, 20253 min read


When Compassion Becomes Too Heavy: ADHD and Compassion Fatigue
If you have ADHD and you’ve always been “the helper” in your circle - the one who jumps in, offers support, carries others’ emotions - you might already know how this story ends: Eventually, you're the one who’s quietly burning out . Why ADHDers Give So Much People with ADHD are often deeply compassionate. Not just kind, but tuned in to the emotional temperature of others. This can come from years of being misunderstood ourselves. We know what it feels like to be criticized
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Oct 23, 20252 min read


ADHD Burnout: When Motivation Disappears and Self-Blame Creeps In
“It wasn’t that I couldn’t get things done. It was that my motivation disappeared, my emotions went quiet… and I still blamed myself for not ‘trying harder.’” If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not lazy, broken, or unmotivated. You might be experiencing ADHD burnout . What Is ADHD Burnout? ADHD burnout isn’t just “being tired.” It’s an emotional and cognitive shutdown that creeps in when your brain - already working overtime to keep up - finally hits a wall. And here’s the
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Oct 17, 20253 min read


What Makes ADHDers Overexplain?
If you’ve ever found yourself halfway through a long-winded explanation thinking, “Why am I still talking?” You’re not alone. Many...
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Oct 3, 20252 min read


What Animal is ADHD?
When people think about ADHD, they often associate it with chaos, energy, distraction, or even hyperactivity. But ADHD is far more...
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Sep 19, 20252 min read


When ADHD and OCD Collide in the Same Brain
ADHD and OCD can clash in the same brain. Learn the key differences, shared struggles, and how to support both without overwhelm.
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Sep 12, 20252 min read


How to Encourage ADHDers: A Fresh, Compassionate Approach That Actually Works
Support ADHDers with encouragement that actually works. Discover the L.I.F.T. Method to empower, not overwhelm. Say goodbye to empty hype.
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Sep 5, 20253 min read


Why My ADHD Brain Rebels Against Everything (PDA Explained)
Ever resist even tasks you want to do? Learn how ADHD and PDA collide—why it happens, how it shows up, and how to work with your brain, not against it.
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Aug 29, 20253 min read


The ADHD Clean/Clutter Cycle: Why We Swing Between Sparkle and Chaos
ADHD clutter isn't laziness—it's neurology. Learn how dopamine and energy shifts drive cleaning cycles and how to create balance, not burnout.
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Aug 22, 20253 min read


How Do You Discipline Someone (or Yourself) With ADHD?
Let’s get one thing clear: discipline isn’t about punishment. It’s about skill-building . But that gets tricky when the brain you're...
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Aug 8, 20253 min read


When Does ADHD Become an Excuse?
ADHD is real—but are you giving yourself grace or making excuses? Learn how to tell the difference and move forward with compassion and curiosity.
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Aug 1, 20252 min read


4 Ways to Master your ADHD Energy Levels
ADHD energy isn’t lazy... It’s inconsistent, but manageable with the right tools! Learn how to track and work with your brain’s highs, lows, and second winds for better focus and flow.
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Jul 25, 20253 min read
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